"But I also feel like I’m not being honest when someone is new to the club because I try not to let on that it only gets harder." At my aunt's funeral, my cousin asked me if the loss of your mother ever gets easier and I just said, "No." And I still feel bad for not lying. I should have lied! Funerals aren't for truth-telling! They'll find out on their own. It would have been kinder to lie. Next time I'll just lie.
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"But I also feel like I’m not being honest when someone is new to the club because I try not to let on that it only gets harder." At my aunt's funeral, my cousin asked me if the loss of your mother ever gets easier and I just said, "No." And I still feel bad for not lying. I should have lied! Funerals aren't for truth-telling! They'll find out on their own. It would have been kinder to lie. Next time I'll just lie.
hahahaha, good news is people at funerals pretty much hear what they want to hear but yeah we need a funeral code of conduct lolol
omg soooooooooooooo weird!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
right?
How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.
Yes the really really realizing is the hardest part. xo