"But I also feel like I’m not being honest when someone is new to the club because I try not to let on that it only gets harder." At my aunt's funeral, my cousin asked me if the loss of your mother ever gets easier and I just said, "No." And I still feel bad for not lying. I should have lied! Funerals aren't for truth-telling! They'll find out on their own. It would have been kinder to lie. Next time I'll just lie.
❤️you.
"But I also feel like I’m not being honest when someone is new to the club because I try not to let on that it only gets harder." At my aunt's funeral, my cousin asked me if the loss of your mother ever gets easier and I just said, "No." And I still feel bad for not lying. I should have lied! Funerals aren't for truth-telling! They'll find out on their own. It would have been kinder to lie. Next time I'll just lie.
omg soooooooooooooo weird!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.
Yes the really really realizing is the hardest part. xo